Understanding Men – Understand your husband better

Understanding Men: Understanding Your Husband

As women, we often want to know what makes our men tick, what is he thinking, why does he want sex so much etc. So let’s explore all of that here. As the saying goes, knowledge is power!

Connecting with Men

What do men want

Reason why men leave

Men with Problems

Connecting with Men

His Needs, Her Needs

What is your husband’s top 5 needs and what are your top 5 needs?

Different Ways Men Express Their Love

“I can sleep with her, marry her, take care of her, but love – that’s something else,” said Tony, a married man in his late forties. “Guys don’t like to talk about love. They don’t know what to say. Of course guys do love. But they express it differently.”…..

How To Love Your Husband Unconditionally

It is hard to find love and unconditional love at that. It can sometimes be hard to find someone who you can love unconditional. When you love unconditionally, you love the person no matter what. The first step to being in a healthy marriage is being in a love filled married. For you to love your husband unconditionally you first have to ……

How To Hold The Keys To Your Partner’s Heart and Mind

Would you like to possess the power to be able to penetrate into your partner’s thoughts and know exactly what he or she wants? Imagine having such jedi-like powers at your fingertips.

Well, you can! If you will learn how to hold the keys to your partner’s heart and mind and make him yours forever.

Kenneth Goode is an outstanding figure in advertising and selling and I do recommend his books if you are interested to find out more about him and his teachings……

How To Get HIM Interested

We have a common interest though. This is why we click together and always enjoy each other’s company, with no expectation from each other……

When Your Husband Becomes Your Father

When Ava – a tall, willowy, graphic artist in her late twenties – met Paul, she was immediately struck by how different he was from other guys she had dated — particularly her father. After years of struggling with a powerful, authoritative father who treated everyone like an employee in his huge import-export company, Ava was utterly relieved by Paul’s mellow nature and spontaneous life style. A professional musician who taught in a small private school, Paul played the guitar for her. They took long walks at the beach and he often brought her a much-cherished single rose……

7 Incredible Ways To Reconnect With Your Husband/Boyfriend

There are times in every relationship when other commitments take priority over your husband or your boyfriend, but these times can hurt a relationship.  When you start to notice that you haven’t been as close as you once were, you will want to start taking steps that will reconnect you with your partner and re-establish the strong relationship that you once had……

What To Do If I Want To Connect With Him But I Don’t Want To Look Needy

We all want to be closer to our man. This is something that we may feel the need to do because it will make us feel better about our relationship. This is going to be a great achievement for most couples. However, it is not always easy to get close to your man because you may not want to look too needy to them. You have to know how to do it right so that you are not making a big mistake in your relationship.

3 Things Men Can’t Resist in a Woman

Actually, it’s pretty simple but most women have the hardest time with understanding men. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me.”

Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes……

50 Universal Truths About Men

A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the “wrong impression” they frequently guard their smiles. While that approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the message of being someone who is overly cautious.

In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need some signal that it is safe to approach a woman before there’re willing to a risk introduction themselves (unless they are intoxicated)…..

Understanding Men: Four Things about your Husband You Must Know!

“We all know some marriages run perfectly,” Harry says. “But what about the other 99% of us? People sometimes can diverge in completely different directions after marriage yet there are always signs we miss that act as warnings. His book: Confessing with girls: money, lies, sex & insensitive men (Bertram & Knott, June 2005), is a satirical look at the simple things men do throughout relationships and why they do them……

What You Call Him, He will Become

Years ago, there was a therapist I worked with named Susan. Susan told me she went to a seminar that a friend of ours named Steve was giving. Since she thought she may want to do similar seminars in the future about marriage, she wanted to see how Steve made his presentation……

Will Women EVER Be Happy With Their Men? How Women Chase Their Men Away

As a woman I have noticed that my female friends rag more than brag about their men, or men in general, and they do this in almost every conversation. Men don’t do this! Why? Well, some would say it is because men don’t discuss their personal lives, their feelings, their emotions, or their intimate relationships. But that’s not true! So why is it that women rag about their men, and men talk about sports, tell jokes, and discuss things—anything—other than their relationships, or women in general?…..

Understanding Men: 5 Statements Men Make and Their Hidden Meaning!

By now you are aware men are very confusing creatures. They say one thing and do another! Understanding men is not difficult when you know what they mean when they talk!

Sometimes you want to strangle them for being so inconsistent. Based on my experience, below are a few statements that will assist you to understand men, which may currently drive you crazy!…..

What is it with Men?

I’ve worked intensively with hundreds of couples over the past 25 years and, of course, you will not be surprised to know that more women than men are “open” to marital therapy and talking about relationships in general.

Most men reluctantly enter the realm only if they “have to.” Their marital world usually needs to be in dire straits before they give their assent.

Use the Enneagram personality type profiling system to find out.

Is your partner an Achiever or a Helper? Do you know your partner’s personality type?


What men want

What Do Husbands Really Want in a Wife?

Because many men do not discuss feelings as easily as most women do, wives are often shocked when their husband actually voices his desire to separate or divorce. They might have suspected that their spouse wasn’t entirely happy, but they didn’t think he’d ever be the one to end the marriage……

What He Wants Could Be What They All Want

I was upset over this incident. It was not my intention to damage our relationship over such a small matter. It was then I realized I had violated one of the most important basic needs of any humans. Most, if not all, people need to be right. I had made him wrong for being so incapable by scolding him……

What Does Your Man REALLY Want: Let’s Demystify Men Today!

If there is one question for which every woman wants an answer is what men want. This question crops up in the mind of every woman be it be a teenager going on her first date; a newly wedded wife getting ready for her husband to return from work; a single woman waiting to find the right man; a divorcee trying to rebuild her life……

What Do Men Really Want?

Actually, it’s pretty simple but most women have the hardest time with understanding men. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me.”

Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes……


Reason why men leave

The Reason Why Men Will Leave Their Woman 

So your man has walked out on you. What went wrong? Other than you being in the wrong through some indiscretion then the reasons could be numerous.

Do you know that men actually crave attention and it’s something they transfer from their childhood into their adult lives.

Now what the heck has this got to do with your man walking out? Well, it could have plenty to do with it and the truth may be that you could have been innocently at fault……


Men with Problems

No B.S. Relevation From A Self-Confessed Commitment-Phobic Man

I’m going to share with you a short email interview which I had conducted with a man who confessed he was a commitment-phobia. He wanted to know how he can go about restoring and renewing a loving relationship with his “former” lover.

During my initial interactions with him, I suddenly had the “inspiration” to do a short email interview with him in order to understand him and his situation better.

What to Do with a Man who Has Commitment Phobic and How You Can Spot One!

There are some men who make women feel very lovable and desirable. They lavish love and gifts on them, and make them feel very special. But when it comes to marriage, they back out. They have a great fear of getting tied to a single woman for life. They run away from the very idea of marriage. Their relationships never have fairytale endings; instead they are littered with heartbreaks..

7 Reasons Why He Always Says He Loves You

You know that men are going to do things that we just do not like.  It is going to happen regardless of what we do or think.  There are men that just have to lie to us and tell us what we want to hear even if we know that they are completely lying to us.  There are things that women have to know and learn about why men say that love us even when they are still seeing someone else……

Dealing With A Cold And Distanced Man: What To Do If HE Is Shutting Down?

A couple, as man and woman, will share feelings and each other constantly during a relationship. Often times a man can become self centered, distant and uninterested in what you do or how you are. The man who is distant can make a woman feel uneasy about herself, un-needed, unwanted and often times self conscience as you second guess what you are doing all the time……

The Two Types of Men: Mr. Fabulous vs. Mr. Strong (Steady)

Here’s a really simplistic way to evaluate men. Let’s just put men into two categories. One group of men we’ll call fabulous and the other will be those that are strong (steady).

Realize with all things, this isn’t to say that there are men who are entirely fabulous or that there are men who are only strong and steady. Usually a ratio of 60-40 is a good measurement. These are going to be their predominant way of relating to you and relating to the world around them……

Help, I’m in Love with a Narcissist

Are you in love with somebody who regularly puts his/her plans, priorities, and needs ahead of yours? Are you in love with somebody who doesn’t even seem to notice that you have any needs of your own? If that’s the case, you might be in love with a selfish and self-involved narcissist……